2020-09-11 20:40:04 UTC
Well, it's possible, at least, that she didn't mean that literally. As in: "I expected him to be more or less familiar with the principles of the book and to RESPECT them, even if he hadn't read it."
And when it comes to the other reviewer who said the book wasn't that dated, that makes sense, unfortunately. Why? Because, due to mainstream online porn, a lot of boys grow up with no real understanding of the importance of gentleness in sex - or anything else that involves communication, mutuality, or kindness - as in, remembering what pleases one partner may not please the other, contrary to what one sees in porn.